I never want to be the type of person who insults my hosts if they are gracious enough to welcome me into their home.
There’s nothing more uncomfortable than being with someone who makes unnecessary rude comments about the living conditions of a friend or family member when they are so kindly giving you a roof over your head.
I have had this happen multiple times with entitled girlfriends who thought that they could make recommendations for air temperature and air quality control changes when we weren’t even in our own home. You have no idea how uncomfortable it is when they start trying to adjust the thermostat or suggest new heating and cooling companies at a friend or family members’ house. This is why I always keep my mouth shut even if I am incredibly uncomfortable in someone else’s home. Recently, this was the case when my good pal kindly offered to let me stay with him for the evening… But didn’t mention that his air conditioning system had been failing. Apparently the central heating and cooling system was 10 or 12 years old and the air conditioning unit was particularly affected by wear and tear. It wasn’t providing high-quality indoor air no matter how He adjusted the thermostat. When I arrived at his house it was hot and muggy, but I didn’t want to insult him by saying anything about the air conditioning system. Instead, I waited until the middle of the night when I could sneak out of the house and purchase a portable AC unit so I could get some sleep.