My hubby has a temper.
I try to get him away from home projects because when they don’t go well, he goes insane. It is not abnormal for him to whip his tools across the shrubbery, yell the F bomb and “punish” the project by leaving it. He doesn’t handle failure really well, periodically he even disfigures the project or hinders it with his outburst, then the problem is that my hubby is consistently eager to begin one in the beginning. I bought a ductless mini split for the bedroom. I learned online and saw that the heating and air conditioning replacement could be done by the homeowner. I owned all the necessary tools and watched tons of videos. I did some practice drilling and learned about forums online. I was more than ready to do our ductless HVAC replacement. When my hubby saw me gearing up to go, he pushed me out of the way. He is the man after all, he can do it. Well he hadn’t done the research I had. He was consistently making mistakes and ruining my modern HVAC unit. He started handling it roughly, swearing under his breath and I was concerned about him denting the unit. When he thought that perhaps he needed a tool and left for the hardware store, I got to work. I was frantic, hoping to finish before he got back. I got all the horrible drilling, feeding refrigerant tubes and wires out of the way, then my hubby came back when I was mounting the dinoor air handler. She was calm by then and the project was going well thankfully.